Sunday, January 29, 2023

Finishing off the year

 The week between Christmas and New Years ended up extra crazy.  I had already planned and was prepared to host a brial shower for Cali Johnson so I went ahead with it, in spite of all the things going on with the passing of Ed.  There was a lot to figure out becuase he didn't have a will and nothing was in order, not to mention a house FULL of stuff and 2 storage units to clean out --kinda overwhelming.  

Helinfield was so amazing and came to spend a few days figuring out the details of their parents financials - she truely saved the day, it was great to have her here helping - she also helped with the throwing away of junk from the house. --we spent our entire Christmas break cleaning out the house --the kids were great help, but didn't really enjoy it, ha!  It was pretty much Hell.  We hauled away over 10 tons just from the house!

The bridal shower was a success and I was so honored to be able to do that for Cali, we just love her and are so happy for her!



Christmas 2022

 Obviously the events of Christmas Eve had us both sad, happy --Ed had been so sad since the passing of Nancy that I know the reuion was glorious!, anxious (about the house!) and all the things -- but we really enjoyed our Christmas morning, we opened gifts before LeGrand headed back to work and we went to Sacrament meeting.  We surprised the kids with a Cruise for Christmas and after Church they found out that the cousins were joining us on the Crusie, they were pumped!





We got updated family pictures in November and I just love them --it's crazy how fast the kids are going, I kinda hate it!



Christmas Eve we'll never forget

 We had quite a few things happen in the couple of weeks before Christmas and they all kinda culminated on Christmas Eve.  

Firstly, when we put our house on the market it was set to expire on Christmas Eve...we haven't had any contacts about the house for over 3 months and for my sanity I had decided we would let it expire and re-list in the spring when the market is better - - and I felt at peace and was able to not worry about it anymore.  Well we had got a call a couple of weeks before Christmas from some people who were very interested but couldn't come up until the week between Christmas and New Years.  Not a big deal, no one else had called on the house in months.  Well, on Friday the 23rd we got a call from a realtor in Soda Springs who had clients that really wanted to come see it the next day, Christmas Eve.  I had my party that night and then woke up and frantically made the kids help me get the house 'showing ready'.  We were set leave at 11:00 when the realtor was showing up with the people to show the house.  While getting the house finished up I got a text from Brandi Turner, her dad owns Sam's market and has a gentleman come in saying he was trying to deliver pie to LeGrand's Dad and he was concerned because he wasn't opening the door.  She just said to have someone check on him and that he might have left the pies at the store.  I called LeGrand and told him to just call his Dad and as soon as we could get out of the house we would go check on him.  When we finally left the house I called LeGrand (he was working the weekend) he said he hadn't had time to call his dad.  I went to the store and talked to Brent who said the man hadn't left the pies but had said he would wait in front of the house.  I went directly to LeGrands parents house and the man was in his car with an officer at his window, I pulled up and asked if they had gotten Ed to come to the door and if everything was okay. The officer looked in the window and saw all the kids in the car and then asked me if he could speak to me alone...immediately I knew something was bad, I warned the kids that maybe Opa had passed.  I parked the car on the side of the house and went and asked the officer if he had passed - he said I'm sorry mam but he is gone.  The face of the man in the car will forever be seared in my memory, his lip quivered and he had tears in his eyes.  Come to find out he was a friend of Ed who worked in the pocatello temple with him and had made him some homemade pies and came clear from Pocky to bring them to him on Christmas Eve.  I felt so bad he had to be the one to call the cop and first discover Ed had passed.  I immediately called LeGrand who came striaght from work --I made calls to all of the family, it was quite the whirlwind.  It was so crazy as he was just at our house party the night before, he hadn't been feeling good that week and had been to the doctor and found out that he was having some Afib problems along with early signs of Liver and Kidney failer - - they figure he had a heart attack. He was found sitting in his rocking chair with the TV on.

    In the meantime I'm getting messages from the real estate agent about the house...it was all crazy.  In the end, the people who were looking at the house the exact moment I discovered Ed had passed made and offer and are under contract to buy our home.  We knew right away, we couldn't leave Grace and leave Ed here alone...to have Nancy pass in September and Ed pass 100 days later, it's crazy to see how this all transpired and impossible to not see the Lords hand in all of this.

We didn't want our Christmas Eve wasted so we went to Pocky and met up with the Balls for Chinese food - when they found out we share the same tradition they had invited both us and Ed to join them. We then covered the vending machine at the hospital waiting room in bills and change for our small act of service.



 

Christmas Open house

We had our 2nd annual Christmas openhouse on the 23rd of December, because it was so close to Christmas (litterally the only time we could have it because of our crazy December) we didn't have the turnout we did last year but we still had a good time with lots of great food --I love getting people together to eat and enjoy each other





 

Green River Tournament

We went to Rock Springs/ Green River for a bball tournament the middle of December - it was fun to meet up with Jed, Kenz and Dellah - - Laexin played some good games, ending his last game with a rolled ankle so it was kinda a bummer but we are definitly glad it wasnt worse!


We had some Tepanyaki goodness one day for lunch

LeGrand let the Loa and Linq swim in the pool while I went with Kenz, Dellah and Lyzti for pedicures.




 

Saturday, January 28, 2023

YW Temple Trip & Live nativity

 We were trying to arrange a temple trip in December for all of the youth, but because of sports and everything going on in the month we had to seperate it into two trips.  I drove for the girls trip - we had fun at the flow rider in Ogden, Lunch at Texas Roadhouse, a stop at Target and then did baptisms at the Brigham City Temple.  It's always fun to hang out with the youth!









I got back just in time to make the family jump in the car and go to the live nativity they were holding in Soda Springs - it was so neat! And SO cold!  The kids especially loved the Camels







Friday, January 27, 2023

Programs and Parties!

 The month of December is always packed full of all the things.  We enjoyed the Elementary school Christmas program where Linq & Lytzi sang their hearts out :)






We had a fun Christmas Dinner and then the kids got to deliver gifts of food donations to the baby jesus






And a Choir Program for Loa








Sunday, January 1, 2023

Christmas Decor

I spent the month of November decorating the house, and even though it was sooner than I usually do it - it was nice to have it all done.  With this giant house it takes a while to get it all fixed up!









One other fun random thing that happened durning the month of October/November is that I got a giant order from an Audrey McGraw in Nashville - just so happend to be Tim McGraw and Faith Hill's daughter.  A couple of weeks later I got an email contact from a lady who is either a friend or employee of theres saying they wanted more garlands so I was able to coordinate with nepal and get them more garlands ordered and to them by the first of December - 24 more white leaf garlands :)  probably the coolest thing that's ever happend to my little business!